RELATIONSHIPS
How Marriages Succeed and Fail, (19 ). John Gottman.
The Relationship Cure: Five Step Guide for Building Better Connections with family, friends and lovers, (2001 ). John Gottman and J. DeClaire.
What Color is Your Parachute: A Practical Guide for job-hunters and career-changers. (revised yearly). R. Bolles.
You Can Heal Your Life, (1988). Louise Hay.
Talking and listening together, (1991). S. Miller, P. Miller, E. Nunnally, & D. Wackman.
Passionate Marriage, (1997). D. Schnarch.
Lesbian Couples: Creative Healthy Relationships, (1993). D.M. Clunis & G.D. Green.
The Good Divorce, (1994). C. Ahrons.
How can I get through to you? Closing the Intimacy Gap between Men and Women, (2002). T. Real.
I don’t want to talk about it, (1997). T. Real.
Dinosaurs Divorce: A Guide for Changing Families, (1986). L.K. Brown & M. Brown. (for children).
Getting the Love you want: Guide for Couples, (1988). H. Hendrix.
The Couples Companion: Meditation and Exercises for Getting the Love you want, (1994). H. Hendrix & H. Hunt.
Keeping the Love you find, (1992). H. Hendrix.
The Personal Companion for Keeping the Love you Find, (1995). H. Hendrix & H. Hunt.
The Emotionally Unavailable Man, (2004). P. Henry.
The Verbally Abusive Relationship: How to Recognize it and how to Respond, (1996). P. Evans.
In the Shadows of the Net, (2001). P.Carnes, D. Delmonico & E. Griffin.
Stop walking on Eggshells: Taking your life back when someone you care about has Borderline Personality Disorder, (1998). P. Mason & R.Kreger.
I hate you; Don’t leave me: Understanding the Borderline Personality, (1989). J.Kreisman & H.Straus.
The Courage to Heal: A Guide for Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse, ((1988). E. Bass & L.Davis.
The Courage to Heal Workbook, (1990). L. Davis.
Meditations for Women who do too much, (1990). A.W.Schaef.
Necessary Losses: The Loves, Illusions, Dependencies, and Impossible Expectations of us we have to give up in order to grow, (1986). J.Viorst.
Smart Women; Foolish Choices: Finding the Right Men and Avoiding the Wrong Ones, (1985). C.Cowan & M.Kinder.
Women who Love too Much: When You keep Wishing and Hoping He’ll Change, (1985). R. Norwood.
What the Bible really says about Homosexuality, (2000). D. Helminiak.
Is the Homosexual my Neighbor? A Positive christian Approach, (1994). L.Scanzon & V.Mollenkott.
Making Life Right when it feels all Wrong: How to avoid being an Emotional Victim with Lovers, Mates, Bosses, Friends and Family, (1988). H.Fensterheim & J. Baer.
Now Discover your Strengths, (2001). M. Buckingham.
The Artist’s Way: A Spiritual Path to Higher Creativity, (1992). J. Cameron.
SELF-DISCOVERY
Making Our Lives Our Own: A Women’s Guide to the Six Challenges of Personal Change, (1991). M. Mason.
Internal Affairs: A Journalkeeping Workbook for Self-intimacy, (1988). K. Hagan.
Learning to Love Yourself, (1990). G. Hendricks.
Composing A Life, (1989). M.Bateson.
The Women of Brewster Place: A Novel in 7 stories, (1982). G. Naylor.
The Wounded Woman: Healing the Father-Daughter Relationship, (1982). L.Leonard.
The Vagina Monologues, (1998). E. Ensler.
The Dark Side of the Light Chasers: Reclaiming your Power, Creativity, Brilliance and Dreams, (1998). D.Ford.
The Care of the Soul: A Guide for Cultivating Depth and Sacredness in Everyday Life, (1992). T.Moore.
SEXUALITY
The Menopausal Years the Wise Woman Way: Alternative Approaches for Women 30-90, (1992). S. Weed.
Extended Massive Orgasm, (2000). S.Bodansky & V. Bodansky.
Mama Gena’s Owner’s and Operator’s Guide to Men, (2003). R.Thomashauer.
Chicken Soup for the Soul, (1997). J. Canfield, M. Hansen, H. McCarty & M.McCarty. [there are many books in this series]
PARENTING
Treating the Troubled Adolescent: A Family-based, Step-by-step Guide, (1998). S. Sells. {He later published a workbook for parents.]
Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child: The Heart of Parenting, (1997). J.Gottman & J.Declaire.
How to help Your Teenager postpone Sexual Involvement, (1988). M. Howard.
Predictive Parenting: What to say When you talk to your Kids, (1989). S. Helmstetter.
EMOTION DYSREGULATION
Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Workbook: Practical DBT Exercises for Learning Mindfulness, Interpersonal Effectiveness, Emotion Regulation and Distress Tolerance, (2007). M.McKoy, J.Wood & J.Brantley.
Depressed & Anxious: The DBT Workbook for Overcoming Depression and Anxiety, (2004). T. Marra.
The Birth of Pleasure, (2002). C. Gilligan.
Noonday Demons:An Atlas of Depression, (2001). A. Solomon.
The Grief Recovery Handbook: A Step-by-step Program for moving beyong Loss, (1988). J.James & F.Cherry.
INSPIRATION
Cries of the Spirit: A Celebration of Women’s Spirituality, (1991). M. Sewell (ed.).
New and Selected Poems, (1992). M. Oliver.
Dreams and Healing: A Succinct and Lively Interpretation of Dreams, (1978). J.Sanford.
A Path with Heart: A Guide through the Perils and Promises of Spiritual Life, (1993). J.Kornfield.
I Love my Body, (1985). L. Hay.
You can Heal your Life, (1999). L. Hay.
The Invitation, (1995). O. Mountain Dreamer.
Ask and It is Given, (2004). E.Hicks & J. Hicks.
Loving what Is, (2002). B. Katie.
The Dynamic Laws of Prosperity, (1962). C.Ponder.
Man’s Search for Meaning, (1984). V.Frankl.
Blink: The Power of Thinking without Thinking, (2005). M.Gladwell.
Sweat your Prayers, (1997). G.Roth.
The Three Candles of little Veronica: The Classic Story of a Child’s Soul in this Life and the Other, (1972). M.Kyber.
Seat of the Soul, (1989). G.Zukov.
Nothing Special: Living Zen, (1993). C.J.Beck & S.Smith.
Wherever you go, There you are: Mindfulness Meditation in Everyday Life, (1994). J.Kabat-Zin.
The Existential Imagination, (1963). F.Karl & L.Hama Lian (eds.).
How can I Help?: Stories and Reflections on Service, (1994). R.Dass & P.Gorman.
The Teachings of Don Juan: A Yaqui Way of Knowledge, (1968). C.Castaneda.
A Separate Reality, (1971). C.Castaneda.
Journey to Ixtlan, (1972). C.Castaneda.
The Art of Dreaming, (1993). C.Castaneda.
The Course in Miracles, (1992). Foundation for Inner Peace.
GROUP ACTIVITIES
Scripting: Social Communication for Adolescents, (1994). P.Mayo & P.Waldo.
The Teen’s Solution Workbook, (1996). L.Shapiro.
Oh the Places we will Go! (1990). Dr. Seuss.
Group Exercises for Enhancing Social Skills and Self Esteem, (1996). S. Khalsa.
Cowstails and Cobras II: Guide to Games, Initiatives, Ropes Courses and Adventure Curriculum, (1989). K.Rohnke.
Islands of Healing: A Guide to Adventure-based Counseling, (1988). J.Schoel, D.Prouty & P.Radcliffe.
The New Games Book, (1976). A.Fluegelman (ed.).
Guide to Initiative Problems, Adventure Games and Trust Activities, (1984). K.Rohnke.
Creative Therapy III: 52 more Exercises, (1995). J.Dossich & E.Shea.
ANGER
Letting go of Anger: The 10 most common Anger Styles and What to do about Them, (1995). R.Potter-Efron & P.Potter-Efron.
Facing the Fire: Experiencing and Expressing Anger Appropriately, (1993). J.Lee.
The Dance of Anger: A Woman’s Guide to Changing the Pattern of Intimate Relationships, (1985). H.G.Lerner.
Men who Hate Women and the Women who Love ThemL When Loving hurts and You don’t Know Why, (1986). S.Forward & J.Torres.
I.A.M. (Integrated Anger Management): A Common Sense Guide to coping with Anger, (1993). M.Fein.
WOMEN’S ISSUES
Another Country: Navigating the Emotional Terrain of our Elders, (1999). M.Pipher.
Women’s Ways of Knowing: The Development of Self, Voice and Mind, (1997). M. Belenky, B.Clinichy, N.Goldberger & J.Tarule.
A Woman’s Book of Life: The Biology, Psychology and Spirituality of the Feminine Life Cycle, (1995). J. Borysenko.
Smart Women/Finish Rich: 7 Steps to achieving Security and Finding your Dreams, (1999). D. Bach.
The 9 Steps to Financial Freedom: Practical and Spiritual Steps so you can stop Worrying, (1997). S.Orman.
Ourselves Growing Older: A Book for Women over 40: Women Aging with Wisdom and Power, (1994). P. Doress, W.Orters & D.Siegal.
Our Bodies/Ourselves, (1998). Boston Women’s Health Book Collective.
ADDICTION
The Obsession: Reflecting on the Tyranny of Slenderness, (1980). K.Chernin.
12 Steps to Self-parenting, (1988). P.Oliver-Diaz & P.O’Gorman.
The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self, (1997). A.Miller.
The Art of Recovery: Thoughts and Meditations for the Recovering Artist, (1999). M.Delaney.
Adult Children of Alcoholics, (1983). J.Woititz.
Struggle for Intimacy, (1985). J.Woititz.
Choicemaking for Codependents, Adult Children and Spirituality Seekers, (1985). S.Wegscheider-Cruse.
How to Stay Sober: Recovery without Religion, (1988). J.Christopher.
Alcoholics Anonymous [The Big Book]: The Story of how many Thousands of Men and Women have Recovered from Alcoholism, ( ). AA World Services, Inc.